She woke up and realized she had forgotten the definition of impossible. She decided it must not have been that important. -Monique Duval
Sunday, April 01, 2012
Look in the mirror...
Look in the mirror and remind yourself you are in your 30's.
I have maybe been accused of looking and acting younger than I am, and I appreciate that, and admit it.
The problem is, the men I am dating are in their 30's...some of them act like they are in their 30's and some of them look like they are in their 40's...and that is okay, right?
I am looking for a responsible man and it's okay if he looks older, right? Men have less options for staying younger looking, and that's just the way it is. I am looking really hard for a nice man to fall in love with. Dating for this long, stinketh. But really, in the spirit of notes to self and rambling, I really am looking for just a nice man who is smart and righteous and relatively attractive, right? Right.
The argument we ladies in our 30's have is what is still important? What is absolutely essential and what isn't? None of us want to age ourselves out of getting married period. But no one wants to settle, either.